Hayes, Mat
Some 📺. Some 🎭. Some 🛳️. Some 🎬. Some 🏆. Some 🎙️. Host of @thefagnosticpodcast. Advocate for LGBTQ family building. 📍 PS/LA. 🎥 links 👇
The psychology behind pursuing a craft based on the insatiable need for validation of your life experience from other people who are in the same boat but with bigger holes is really a trip. Anyway, here’s my new reel. Some tv shows, some movies, and I’m just really grateful to be so unabashedly committed to my goals that I still put myself out there for critique and judgement. Also thankful for the folks that trust me with their words. That’s really humbling. I love acting. 🎬

I am speechless. Just learned that I won BEST ACTOR at the @cittadorofilm festival in Vienna Austria and this is what they wrote about my performance. Thank you jurors for recognizing our work. And thank you @delshores and @emersoncollins for directing TF out of this short film I wrote that became something so vulnerable and so scary to tell. Y’all supported this vision from day 1 and then you didn’t flinch when I said, “everything is changing.” My sweet, open, sexy scene partner @alexander19p held space for my chaos and allowed me to fall in love with his character so safely and so quickly. “Shafted” has been such a gift this past year seeing how audiences respond to it all over the world. But the real gift is that I get to share these accolades with other artists that I love and respect. This entire creative team allows me to do what I do. Just so freaking thankful. My acting teacher @jeffreymarcus has believed in me almost longer than anyone else in this city and has worked exhaustively to make me see something in me that I never saw myself. My friend @jgilsig helped me figure out how to tell this story when I had a breakdown over the previous inauthenticity of this script. My EP’s @stuarthowellbell, @crvttwmn, @lulupigg, and @jlaveck wrote checks to make sure I could tell this story. And the SCORES of donors that are a part of this and helped cover the enormous costs of creating a movie. Thank you thank you thank you. Love yall.

Some reasons your butt should be in our seats this weekend. 3 more chances to see @p3theatrecompany’s world premiere of @jiggsb1 The Red Suitcase, directed by @delshores with additional staging by @blakemciver! I can’t adequately express the gratitude I have for having gotten to be a part of this. See ya at @thebroadwaterla. 🎭

Some reasons your butt should be in our seats this weekend. 3 more chances to see @p3theatrecompany’s world premiere of @jiggsb1 The Red Suitcase, directed by @delshores with additional staging by @blakemciver! I can’t adequately express the gratitude I have for having gotten to be a part of this. See ya at @thebroadwaterla. 🎭

Some reasons your butt should be in our seats this weekend. 3 more chances to see @p3theatrecompany’s world premiere of @jiggsb1 The Red Suitcase, directed by @delshores with additional staging by @blakemciver! I can’t adequately express the gratitude I have for having gotten to be a part of this. See ya at @thebroadwaterla. 🎭

Some reasons your butt should be in our seats this weekend. 3 more chances to see @p3theatrecompany’s world premiere of @jiggsb1 The Red Suitcase, directed by @delshores with additional staging by @blakemciver! I can’t adequately express the gratitude I have for having gotten to be a part of this. See ya at @thebroadwaterla. 🎭

Some reasons your butt should be in our seats this weekend. 3 more chances to see @p3theatrecompany’s world premiere of @jiggsb1 The Red Suitcase, directed by @delshores with additional staging by @blakemciver! I can’t adequately express the gratitude I have for having gotten to be a part of this. See ya at @thebroadwaterla. 🎭

Some reasons your butt should be in our seats this weekend. 3 more chances to see @p3theatrecompany’s world premiere of @jiggsb1 The Red Suitcase, directed by @delshores with additional staging by @blakemciver! I can’t adequately express the gratitude I have for having gotten to be a part of this. See ya at @thebroadwaterla. 🎭

Some reasons your butt should be in our seats this weekend. 3 more chances to see @p3theatrecompany’s world premiere of @jiggsb1 The Red Suitcase, directed by @delshores with additional staging by @blakemciver! I can’t adequately express the gratitude I have for having gotten to be a part of this. See ya at @thebroadwaterla. 🎭

Some reasons your butt should be in our seats this weekend. 3 more chances to see @p3theatrecompany’s world premiere of @jiggsb1 The Red Suitcase, directed by @delshores with additional staging by @blakemciver! I can’t adequately express the gratitude I have for having gotten to be a part of this. See ya at @thebroadwaterla. 🎭

Some reasons your butt should be in our seats this weekend. 3 more chances to see @p3theatrecompany’s world premiere of @jiggsb1 The Red Suitcase, directed by @delshores with additional staging by @blakemciver! I can’t adequately express the gratitude I have for having gotten to be a part of this. See ya at @thebroadwaterla. 🎭

Some reasons your butt should be in our seats this weekend. 3 more chances to see @p3theatrecompany’s world premiere of @jiggsb1 The Red Suitcase, directed by @delshores with additional staging by @blakemciver! I can’t adequately express the gratitude I have for having gotten to be a part of this. See ya at @thebroadwaterla. 🎭

The reviews are in, both critical and otherwise. Thank you @cvindependent, @thehollywood.times, @tsageandcinema, and @pstribune for such kind words about my work and the work of this incredibly remarkable cast and crew. Thank you @emmaschillage for trusting me with your hauntingly romantic words. Thank you @emersoncollins for guiding this ship with strong direction and for creating space for us to fully find these characters. You are such a skilled director. Thank you @revolutionstagecompany for boldly putting this show in front of audiences. Proud to work with @delshoresfoundation and finding phenomenal once-in-a-generation writers like Emma. And yes, the non-press reviews are things people actually said to me.
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📸: the incomparable @tarahowardphoto

The reviews are in, both critical and otherwise. Thank you @cvindependent, @thehollywood.times, @tsageandcinema, and @pstribune for such kind words about my work and the work of this incredibly remarkable cast and crew. Thank you @emmaschillage for trusting me with your hauntingly romantic words. Thank you @emersoncollins for guiding this ship with strong direction and for creating space for us to fully find these characters. You are such a skilled director. Thank you @revolutionstagecompany for boldly putting this show in front of audiences. Proud to work with @delshoresfoundation and finding phenomenal once-in-a-generation writers like Emma. And yes, the non-press reviews are things people actually said to me.
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📸: the incomparable @tarahowardphoto

The reviews are in, both critical and otherwise. Thank you @cvindependent, @thehollywood.times, @tsageandcinema, and @pstribune for such kind words about my work and the work of this incredibly remarkable cast and crew. Thank you @emmaschillage for trusting me with your hauntingly romantic words. Thank you @emersoncollins for guiding this ship with strong direction and for creating space for us to fully find these characters. You are such a skilled director. Thank you @revolutionstagecompany for boldly putting this show in front of audiences. Proud to work with @delshoresfoundation and finding phenomenal once-in-a-generation writers like Emma. And yes, the non-press reviews are things people actually said to me.
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📸: the incomparable @tarahowardphoto

The reviews are in, both critical and otherwise. Thank you @cvindependent, @thehollywood.times, @tsageandcinema, and @pstribune for such kind words about my work and the work of this incredibly remarkable cast and crew. Thank you @emmaschillage for trusting me with your hauntingly romantic words. Thank you @emersoncollins for guiding this ship with strong direction and for creating space for us to fully find these characters. You are such a skilled director. Thank you @revolutionstagecompany for boldly putting this show in front of audiences. Proud to work with @delshoresfoundation and finding phenomenal once-in-a-generation writers like Emma. And yes, the non-press reviews are things people actually said to me.
🪳🐹
📸: the incomparable @tarahowardphoto

The reviews are in, both critical and otherwise. Thank you @cvindependent, @thehollywood.times, @tsageandcinema, and @pstribune for such kind words about my work and the work of this incredibly remarkable cast and crew. Thank you @emmaschillage for trusting me with your hauntingly romantic words. Thank you @emersoncollins for guiding this ship with strong direction and for creating space for us to fully find these characters. You are such a skilled director. Thank you @revolutionstagecompany for boldly putting this show in front of audiences. Proud to work with @delshoresfoundation and finding phenomenal once-in-a-generation writers like Emma. And yes, the non-press reviews are things people actually said to me.
🪳🐹
📸: the incomparable @tarahowardphoto

The reviews are in, both critical and otherwise. Thank you @cvindependent, @thehollywood.times, @tsageandcinema, and @pstribune for such kind words about my work and the work of this incredibly remarkable cast and crew. Thank you @emmaschillage for trusting me with your hauntingly romantic words. Thank you @emersoncollins for guiding this ship with strong direction and for creating space for us to fully find these characters. You are such a skilled director. Thank you @revolutionstagecompany for boldly putting this show in front of audiences. Proud to work with @delshoresfoundation and finding phenomenal once-in-a-generation writers like Emma. And yes, the non-press reviews are things people actually said to me.
🪳🐹
📸: the incomparable @tarahowardphoto

The reviews are in, both critical and otherwise. Thank you @cvindependent, @thehollywood.times, @tsageandcinema, and @pstribune for such kind words about my work and the work of this incredibly remarkable cast and crew. Thank you @emmaschillage for trusting me with your hauntingly romantic words. Thank you @emersoncollins for guiding this ship with strong direction and for creating space for us to fully find these characters. You are such a skilled director. Thank you @revolutionstagecompany for boldly putting this show in front of audiences. Proud to work with @delshoresfoundation and finding phenomenal once-in-a-generation writers like Emma. And yes, the non-press reviews are things people actually said to me.
🪳🐹
📸: the incomparable @tarahowardphoto

The reviews are in, both critical and otherwise. Thank you @cvindependent, @thehollywood.times, @tsageandcinema, and @pstribune for such kind words about my work and the work of this incredibly remarkable cast and crew. Thank you @emmaschillage for trusting me with your hauntingly romantic words. Thank you @emersoncollins for guiding this ship with strong direction and for creating space for us to fully find these characters. You are such a skilled director. Thank you @revolutionstagecompany for boldly putting this show in front of audiences. Proud to work with @delshoresfoundation and finding phenomenal once-in-a-generation writers like Emma. And yes, the non-press reviews are things people actually said to me.
🪳🐹
📸: the incomparable @tarahowardphoto

The reviews are in, both critical and otherwise. Thank you @cvindependent, @thehollywood.times, @tsageandcinema, and @pstribune for such kind words about my work and the work of this incredibly remarkable cast and crew. Thank you @emmaschillage for trusting me with your hauntingly romantic words. Thank you @emersoncollins for guiding this ship with strong direction and for creating space for us to fully find these characters. You are such a skilled director. Thank you @revolutionstagecompany for boldly putting this show in front of audiences. Proud to work with @delshoresfoundation and finding phenomenal once-in-a-generation writers like Emma. And yes, the non-press reviews are things people actually said to me.
🪳🐹
📸: the incomparable @tarahowardphoto

The reviews are in, both critical and otherwise. Thank you @cvindependent, @thehollywood.times, @tsageandcinema, and @pstribune for such kind words about my work and the work of this incredibly remarkable cast and crew. Thank you @emmaschillage for trusting me with your hauntingly romantic words. Thank you @emersoncollins for guiding this ship with strong direction and for creating space for us to fully find these characters. You are such a skilled director. Thank you @revolutionstagecompany for boldly putting this show in front of audiences. Proud to work with @delshoresfoundation and finding phenomenal once-in-a-generation writers like Emma. And yes, the non-press reviews are things people actually said to me.
🪳🐹
📸: the incomparable @tarahowardphoto

The reviews are in, both critical and otherwise. Thank you @cvindependent, @thehollywood.times, @tsageandcinema, and @pstribune for such kind words about my work and the work of this incredibly remarkable cast and crew. Thank you @emmaschillage for trusting me with your hauntingly romantic words. Thank you @emersoncollins for guiding this ship with strong direction and for creating space for us to fully find these characters. You are such a skilled director. Thank you @revolutionstagecompany for boldly putting this show in front of audiences. Proud to work with @delshoresfoundation and finding phenomenal once-in-a-generation writers like Emma. And yes, the non-press reviews are things people actually said to me.
🪳🐹
📸: the incomparable @tarahowardphoto

The reviews are in, both critical and otherwise. Thank you @cvindependent, @thehollywood.times, @tsageandcinema, and @pstribune for such kind words about my work and the work of this incredibly remarkable cast and crew. Thank you @emmaschillage for trusting me with your hauntingly romantic words. Thank you @emersoncollins for guiding this ship with strong direction and for creating space for us to fully find these characters. You are such a skilled director. Thank you @revolutionstagecompany for boldly putting this show in front of audiences. Proud to work with @delshoresfoundation and finding phenomenal once-in-a-generation writers like Emma. And yes, the non-press reviews are things people actually said to me.
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📸: the incomparable @tarahowardphoto
I’m here to tell you that 2 things can be true at once. But @tacobell and @byronlanedotcom certainly help.
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#tacobell #taco #livemas #depressed #crunch

@rikerforcongress is the real deal. I mean that. This London SOE trained economist and former Obama staffer has SOLUTIONS to accompany every talking point. He has ANSWERS to every single question thrown at him. Getting to host Brandon at my home was such an honor and I love seeing people pack out his town halls and coming out EXCITED for a future that “they” don’t want us to see. Brandon’s vision is beyond the orchestrated chaos of the day. Let me know if you’d like to volunteer with us in these final days before the CA primary because District 48 would be well served by sending this man to DC. Y’all check him out and then VOTE! Too much is riding on this! And look at the video of him talking about the FICA cap, gerrymandering (yes, us too), income inequality, capital gains, and the GOP’s efforts to upend the social programs that have the smallest impact on our national debt. This was an off-the-cuff response to an audience member. Not a rehearsed moment. He also loves President Bartlet in The West Wing. What else do you need to know?
🗳️🇺🇸🌊
700 volunteers
200,000 phone calls
10,000 doors
11 town halls (11 more than any opponent)
129 hosted sessions
$0 in dark money

@rikerforcongress is the real deal. I mean that. This London SOE trained economist and former Obama staffer has SOLUTIONS to accompany every talking point. He has ANSWERS to every single question thrown at him. Getting to host Brandon at my home was such an honor and I love seeing people pack out his town halls and coming out EXCITED for a future that “they” don’t want us to see. Brandon’s vision is beyond the orchestrated chaos of the day. Let me know if you’d like to volunteer with us in these final days before the CA primary because District 48 would be well served by sending this man to DC. Y’all check him out and then VOTE! Too much is riding on this! And look at the video of him talking about the FICA cap, gerrymandering (yes, us too), income inequality, capital gains, and the GOP’s efforts to upend the social programs that have the smallest impact on our national debt. This was an off-the-cuff response to an audience member. Not a rehearsed moment. He also loves President Bartlet in The West Wing. What else do you need to know?
🗳️🇺🇸🌊
700 volunteers
200,000 phone calls
10,000 doors
11 town halls (11 more than any opponent)
129 hosted sessions
$0 in dark money

@rikerforcongress is the real deal. I mean that. This London SOE trained economist and former Obama staffer has SOLUTIONS to accompany every talking point. He has ANSWERS to every single question thrown at him. Getting to host Brandon at my home was such an honor and I love seeing people pack out his town halls and coming out EXCITED for a future that “they” don’t want us to see. Brandon’s vision is beyond the orchestrated chaos of the day. Let me know if you’d like to volunteer with us in these final days before the CA primary because District 48 would be well served by sending this man to DC. Y’all check him out and then VOTE! Too much is riding on this! And look at the video of him talking about the FICA cap, gerrymandering (yes, us too), income inequality, capital gains, and the GOP’s efforts to upend the social programs that have the smallest impact on our national debt. This was an off-the-cuff response to an audience member. Not a rehearsed moment. He also loves President Bartlet in The West Wing. What else do you need to know?
🗳️🇺🇸🌊
700 volunteers
200,000 phone calls
10,000 doors
11 town halls (11 more than any opponent)
129 hosted sessions
$0 in dark money
@rikerforcongress is the real deal. I mean that. This London SOE trained economist and former Obama staffer has SOLUTIONS to accompany every talking point. He has ANSWERS to every single question thrown at him. Getting to host Brandon at my home was such an honor and I love seeing people pack out his town halls and coming out EXCITED for a future that “they” don’t want us to see. Brandon’s vision is beyond the orchestrated chaos of the day. Let me know if you’d like to volunteer with us in these final days before the CA primary because District 48 would be well served by sending this man to DC. Y’all check him out and then VOTE! Too much is riding on this! And look at the video of him talking about the FICA cap, gerrymandering (yes, us too), income inequality, capital gains, and the GOP’s efforts to upend the social programs that have the smallest impact on our national debt. This was an off-the-cuff response to an audience member. Not a rehearsed moment. He also loves President Bartlet in The West Wing. What else do you need to know?
🗳️🇺🇸🌊
700 volunteers
200,000 phone calls
10,000 doors
11 town halls (11 more than any opponent)
129 hosted sessions
$0 in dark money

@rikerforcongress is the real deal. I mean that. This London SOE trained economist and former Obama staffer has SOLUTIONS to accompany every talking point. He has ANSWERS to every single question thrown at him. Getting to host Brandon at my home was such an honor and I love seeing people pack out his town halls and coming out EXCITED for a future that “they” don’t want us to see. Brandon’s vision is beyond the orchestrated chaos of the day. Let me know if you’d like to volunteer with us in these final days before the CA primary because District 48 would be well served by sending this man to DC. Y’all check him out and then VOTE! Too much is riding on this! And look at the video of him talking about the FICA cap, gerrymandering (yes, us too), income inequality, capital gains, and the GOP’s efforts to upend the social programs that have the smallest impact on our national debt. This was an off-the-cuff response to an audience member. Not a rehearsed moment. He also loves President Bartlet in The West Wing. What else do you need to know?
🗳️🇺🇸🌊
700 volunteers
200,000 phone calls
10,000 doors
11 town halls (11 more than any opponent)
129 hosted sessions
$0 in dark money

@rikerforcongress is the real deal. I mean that. This London SOE trained economist and former Obama staffer has SOLUTIONS to accompany every talking point. He has ANSWERS to every single question thrown at him. Getting to host Brandon at my home was such an honor and I love seeing people pack out his town halls and coming out EXCITED for a future that “they” don’t want us to see. Brandon’s vision is beyond the orchestrated chaos of the day. Let me know if you’d like to volunteer with us in these final days before the CA primary because District 48 would be well served by sending this man to DC. Y’all check him out and then VOTE! Too much is riding on this! And look at the video of him talking about the FICA cap, gerrymandering (yes, us too), income inequality, capital gains, and the GOP’s efforts to upend the social programs that have the smallest impact on our national debt. This was an off-the-cuff response to an audience member. Not a rehearsed moment. He also loves President Bartlet in The West Wing. What else do you need to know?
🗳️🇺🇸🌊
700 volunteers
200,000 phone calls
10,000 doors
11 town halls (11 more than any opponent)
129 hosted sessions
$0 in dark money

@rikerforcongress is the real deal. I mean that. This London SOE trained economist and former Obama staffer has SOLUTIONS to accompany every talking point. He has ANSWERS to every single question thrown at him. Getting to host Brandon at my home was such an honor and I love seeing people pack out his town halls and coming out EXCITED for a future that “they” don’t want us to see. Brandon’s vision is beyond the orchestrated chaos of the day. Let me know if you’d like to volunteer with us in these final days before the CA primary because District 48 would be well served by sending this man to DC. Y’all check him out and then VOTE! Too much is riding on this! And look at the video of him talking about the FICA cap, gerrymandering (yes, us too), income inequality, capital gains, and the GOP’s efforts to upend the social programs that have the smallest impact on our national debt. This was an off-the-cuff response to an audience member. Not a rehearsed moment. He also loves President Bartlet in The West Wing. What else do you need to know?
🗳️🇺🇸🌊
700 volunteers
200,000 phone calls
10,000 doors
11 town halls (11 more than any opponent)
129 hosted sessions
$0 in dark money
I’m gonna release an album called He/Hymn. It’s just gonna be CCM deep cuts like this. Collabs with all the queer alum. @ray_boltz_artist
In honor of @michaelpassons, @tyherndonofficial, and @melissagreene RECLAIMING one of the biggest songs in CCM as a queer anthem, here’s a baritone’s “Testify To Love” #avalon #testifytolove #ccm #exvangelical

My new play is now available for production inquiries on @newplayexchange! In February, I hosted a virtual reading with an INSANELY TALENTED cast. Thank you Lety, Nick, and Juan for giving me so much insight into where this play script was going. I am so thankful for creativity that allows me to process what I’ve been through the last couple years. This play serves as kind of a love letter to what I *thought* was real. When the lies and cons were discovered, I toyed with changing this play’s ending. But despite it being fraudulent, it was still my lived experience. So I kept working on this play that tells a specific story. A story that was once very real. And I’m so excited to see where this goes. And don’t worry, the real story is coming in a different medium.
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This play is a work of fiction inspired by real events. Names, characters, businesses, places, and incidents are either the product of the playwright’s imagination or used fictitiously. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or deceased or allegedly deceasing, or actual events beyond the intended inspiration is purely coincidental. While the story may draw from emotional truths and lived experiences, it is ultimately a dramatized work created for theatrical purposes.

My new play is now available for production inquiries on @newplayexchange! In February, I hosted a virtual reading with an INSANELY TALENTED cast. Thank you Lety, Nick, and Juan for giving me so much insight into where this play script was going. I am so thankful for creativity that allows me to process what I’ve been through the last couple years. This play serves as kind of a love letter to what I *thought* was real. When the lies and cons were discovered, I toyed with changing this play’s ending. But despite it being fraudulent, it was still my lived experience. So I kept working on this play that tells a specific story. A story that was once very real. And I’m so excited to see where this goes. And don’t worry, the real story is coming in a different medium.
🎭
This play is a work of fiction inspired by real events. Names, characters, businesses, places, and incidents are either the product of the playwright’s imagination or used fictitiously. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or deceased or allegedly deceasing, or actual events beyond the intended inspiration is purely coincidental. While the story may draw from emotional truths and lived experiences, it is ultimately a dramatized work created for theatrical purposes.

My new play is now available for production inquiries on @newplayexchange! In February, I hosted a virtual reading with an INSANELY TALENTED cast. Thank you Lety, Nick, and Juan for giving me so much insight into where this play script was going. I am so thankful for creativity that allows me to process what I’ve been through the last couple years. This play serves as kind of a love letter to what I *thought* was real. When the lies and cons were discovered, I toyed with changing this play’s ending. But despite it being fraudulent, it was still my lived experience. So I kept working on this play that tells a specific story. A story that was once very real. And I’m so excited to see where this goes. And don’t worry, the real story is coming in a different medium.
🎭
This play is a work of fiction inspired by real events. Names, characters, businesses, places, and incidents are either the product of the playwright’s imagination or used fictitiously. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or deceased or allegedly deceasing, or actual events beyond the intended inspiration is purely coincidental. While the story may draw from emotional truths and lived experiences, it is ultimately a dramatized work created for theatrical purposes.
Tell me not to do it. I’m gonna do it. 🐷
#qtip #abstinence #sin #truelovewaits #erogenous
Happy 30th birthday Rent. Couple days late celebrating, but you are one of the greatest gifts to musical theatre and to those who work in it. Thank you Jonathan Larson for leaving us with this anthem. Playing Mark 16 years ago was one of the highlights of my career.
#broadway #rent #markcohen #jonathanlarson #musicaltheatre
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