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Greece, 2024

At the military ball last week, Tampa, FL

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Drive-ins for @thecut back in Spring, 2020

New Orleans, March 2022

Shine them boots up, it’s rodeo time

‘This 4,000 year old tale of gender fluidity is the origin story of the third gender in India known as Hijras (or Aravanis), who see themselves as direct decedents of Aravan. It is held up as a historical precedent for respectable place in society.

For one day a year, thousands of Hijras flock to a remote temple in Tamil Nadu to become brides of Aravan. The atmosphere is raucous. Their tragic fate - to be able to love, but never to bear children, is forgotten.

On the air is drumming and incense and warbling cries of eunuch voices, bootleg alcohol and dancing. New couples slink off into the fields around the temple. There is little sleep.

Red eyed by the morning, a few little cooking fires are lit. Groups drift apart and re-assemble.

The sky heats up to hallucinatory temperatures. A purifying dip in the water and white Saris are donned, mourning clothing. Aravan’s head is severed and the sound of wailing, of thousands of new widows, comes through the forest. ‘

For @tabularasamagazine