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Having a baby will make you hate your husband. This is episode 1 of “things I wish I knew before having a baby.”

What made me want to create this series was talking to moms, more often than not they’d be moms I just met on the street, and they’d all tell me the same thing… they hate their husband. It happened so often I was like, why don’t we talk about this more?!

It’s because it’s scary to admit that the man you have the most profound love and respect for, the man who is your best friend, could suddenly become your frenemy during this season. While having a baby changes both of your lives - it’s different for you.

Every single thing about you will change at a molecular level. Your identity will shift and you will experience a different level of consciousness that not only magnifies how deeply unfair the roles are but reveals they were never fair in the first place.

This is motherhood.

All of my love, patience, and kindness goes to my child and whatever little I have left I ask: who am I giving this to? Me or him? This constant state of depletion is a breeding ground for resentment. It’s why so many couples split within those first few years of having a baby.

So if you are deep in the baby trenches, looking over at your partner thinking, “why aren’t you doing this right?!” I get you sister and you are not alone.

Follow along for episode 2 coming out soon!

Thank you to my husband for encouraging me to create this. I love you and I’m proud of us for digging our way out of those trenches ♥️

Holiday party crisis? Solved with a little Target magic ✨

Starring @jackiefern and @danamoonme 🌟 #TheSixTripsofTarget

✨DATE IDEA ALERT✨ Who needs dinner and a movie when you can try to hit paint filled balloons that fall onto a canvas that get spun to your hearts desire?!

@shot_of_art is probably the most fun date I’ve been on cause you get to be messy and act like a kid and it reminded me of that paint scene in “10 things I hate about you” minus the paint in your hair!

I also love that you get to take your creation home and if you don’t live with your person they have this option where you can pick two canvases that you paint as one piece but can be separated and I think that’s super romantic💞

#sponsored #pov #la #dateideas

Nothing makes you feel more broke than having a kid cause suddenly everything in your life needs an UPGRADE!

This is episode 17 of “things I wish I knew before having a baby”

The truth is I’m tired and my toddler’s energy is limitless. I’m so exhausted these days that after playing with baby I’ll lay down and say “mommy tired” and now whenever she sees me she goes “mommy tired!”

Raising a baby army is serious business!💜

@j.m @mnijungkook @jin @rkive @agustd @uarmyhope @thv @bts.bighitofficial

Actual footage of how @dove helps me survive my mornings with my toddler! The new Dove Advanced Care Antiperspirant keeps me odor and sweat free for up to 72 hours and the scent of “caring coconut” transports me to the islands🥥🌺🌴

#DovePartner

Motherhood is the hardest most wonderful beautiful expansive thing I’ve ever experienced and this is my love letter to every mom who is overstimulated, sleep deprived, stressed, exhausted and still trying to figure out who they are yet showing up every single day giving their all to their baby and family. I see you, I am with you, and wishing you a happy Mother’s Day!💞

What happens Filipinos link up 🇵🇭 happy Asian American heritage month ayyy

GIVEAWAY! I’m gifting three moms new @hoka sneakers for Mother’s Day as a thank you for being part of my village🥰

All you have to do is tell me one thing you love about yourself since becoming a mom! Make sure to also like the post and if you feel inclined tag two moms who you think need a lil pep in their step.

I’ll pick three moms and you’ll have new sneakers at your house to chase after your kid very soon! Must be based in the US.

A big thank you to Hoka for sponsoring this and happy Mother’s Day! 💞

A love letter to my village♥️

What moms really want for Mother’s Day! May this land on your man’s page or be sent to him by your bestie💞